Campaign For Courtesy

Thousands of young people leave school and university every year with high academic qualification, but limited social skills. The Campaign for Courtesy is looking for ways in which they could be trained and recognised for ability to get on with other people and make acceptable social relationships.

`Empathy` awards could then sit on their CVs alongside certificates and diplomas in academic subjects. Nominations are invited for young people who qualify for such awards. Nominations should include an assessment of ability to listen with intelligence, patience, self-control in difficult situations and all-round common sense. The council of the CfC may wish to meet individuals concerned and ask for a written opinion from them about the meaning and value of good manners. If an award is made, the cost will be £50, payable by the nominator.

The idea follows a number of reports from employers that, in spite of gaining good degrees, many young people cannot hold conversations, or make and retain amiable relationships. A spokesman for `City and Guilds` told the CfC that `the development of social skills and the ability to form constructive relationships are essential skills for life and work.

We do include social skills in a number of our qualifications, such as communication, building positive relationships with customers, handling complaint and conflict management. These skills are part of what makes a `polite society`.

Nominations should be addressed to the Secretary, CfC, 16 Grice Road, Hartshill, Stoke-on-Trent, ST4 7PJ.

	'We simply want to draw attention to the value of courtesy.
	That is, to be able to listen, to smile, and to take time in our dealings with each other'
	Ian Gregory June 2001